Ukugcinwa kwengane kubandakanya kokubili umsebenzi kanye nelungelo lomzali lokukhulisa nokunakekela ingane yakhe encane. Lokhu kuthinta inhlalakahle yomzimba, ukuphepha nokukhula kwengane encane. Lapho abazali abasebenzisa igunya lobuzali ngokuhlanganyela benquma ukufaka isicelo sesehlukaniso, abazali, ngokomthetho, bazoqhubeka nokusebenzisa igunya lobuzali ngokuhlanganyela.
Ukuhluka kungenzeka: inkantolo inganquma ukuthi omunye wabazali unegunya eligcwele lobuzali. Kodwa-ke, ekwenzeni lesi sinqumo, izintshisekelo ezingcono kakhulu zengane zibaluleke kakhulu. Lokhu kwenzeka lapho kunengozi engamukeleki yokuthi ingane ingabanjwa noma ilahlekelwe phakathi kwabazali (futhi leso simo akunakwenzeka ukuthi sithuthuke ngokwanele esikhathini esifushane), noma lapho ushintsho lokugcinwa komntwana kudingekile ukuze lusebenzele okuhle kakhulu yengane.
Ingabe udinga usizo lwezomthetho noma iseluleko mayelana neDivosi? Noma usenemibuzo ngalesi sihloko? Eyethu Abameli bezehlukaniso angakujabulela ukukusiza!
